These days I see a lot of teen-twenties youth carrying long faces, staying in depressed state, acting as sheer Laila – Majnu. Showing complete signs of hopelessness, all the time they just talk about betrayal. How they were targeted and left to sulk.
Few things I would like to check with my young friends, Firstly guys do you really know the difference between love and infatuation? Like one of my very good blogger friend sumitofficial.wordpress.com mentions in his blog that most of the youth try and get in to the relationships due to peer pressure or show people around that they are a couple. I believe 80% of the youth fall prey to this notion.
Once they enter a relation they start feeling the pressure. Pressure to adjust with your partner, pressure to do and like what your partner does and likes, pressure to appear some one what you are not. This is surely not easy. When asked to change any habit by parents they feel reckless and do not pay heed to what their parents say but for a partner they do try though do not succeed in most of the cases. At this point the two start drifting apart and break loose, eventually terming it as BETRAYAL.
Wouldn’t it be more mature and sensible to understand first what love is, understand compatibility and then get committed rather than falling in love blindly based on infatuation later breaking up and crying of Betrayal.
PS. This blog is a part of Betrayal series done by @bloggersjunction
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